Sitting on the fence gets you nothing, except maybe a few splinters in your rear.
Most people seem to have trouble making decisions. Perhaps it is because they have too many options to choose from. Or maybe they had a parent or friend that made all their choices for them, so they never learned the decision making process. Many are afraid of making the wrong choice, while others are waiting to see which way others go so they can follow them. They think sitting on the fence and not making a choice will keep them safe in their non-committal world. After all, they think, they have plenty of time to decide. Why rush? But deciding not to choose is itself a choice, and one which can have dire consequences.
Joshua 24:15
And if it seems evil to you to serve the LORD, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.”
When it comes to deciding if you are going to choose to accept Christ as your Savior and serve God, you don’t want to be dragging your feet. The Apostle Paul says in 2 Corinthians 6:2 that “now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” Sometimes we put off decisions for so long that when we finally make a move, it’s too late. God created man and then made the most unselfish move – He gave us free will. That means we are free to choose serving Him . . . or not. The opportunity to choose to spend eternity in Heaven with a loving God is one that you don’t want to take for granted. We are all going to spend an eternity somewhere. The question for each of us is do we want Smoking or Non-Smoking? I’m not trying to make light of it . . . it’s an important decision to make. There isn’t an “opt out” button. If you don’t choose Heaven, you’ll get Hell by default. It’s not about if you are a “good person.” The Bible says that no sin will enter into Heaven. Revelation 21:27: “But there shall by no means enter it anything that defiles, or causes an abomination or a lie, but only those who are written in the Lamb’s Book of Life.” Jesus is the Lamb of God that cleanses us of our sin when we repent of them.
Critics would say that I am another Christian using scare tactics to convert people to my faith. You bet! We should be afraid. Proverbs 9:10 tells us that the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. But no wants to “scare” someone into choosing Christ. The fear you have for the Lord isn’t like the fear you have of the dark or of spiders or whatever it is that scares you. The kind of fear you should have for God is a reverent respect – the knowledge of who God is and how mighty and wonderful He is. You should choose Him because of this knowledge and the knowledge that He loves you and it is His will that none should perish, but that all should come to repentance. We love Him because He first loved us.
Deuteronomy 30:19
I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live;
It’s funny that when you try to talk to people about God, they get evasive or try to change the subject. They’ll talk about how they grew up in church or how they do believe in God, but they don’t talk about having a current relationship with Him. Others will say that they have wanted to go to church, but they just aren’t ready or they haven’t had time. I’ve had people tell me they are afraid the church walls would fall in if they walked in the building. I hate to tell them, but Satan comes to church every Sunday and the church building is just fine.
You think Christians are trying to scare people into church? The devil is trying to scare them out of church. He has some classic lines:
• You’ll have to give up drinking your beer. Say goodbye to Margaritaville!
• You can’t serve God because you smoke.
• You’ll never get to have fun anymore if you start going to church.
• If those people at church find out about the things you’ve done, they’ll toss you out on your ear.
• You can’t serve God with all the things you’ve done. You’re not good enough.
• You’ll have to give up your whole day on Sunday.
• You work on Sunday . . . you’ll lose your job.
• You won’t get to sleep in on Sunday and get your rest for work on Monday.
• They are going to expect you to give the church all your money.
• What will your friends think if you start going to church?
• Church is just filled with a bunch of hypocrites.
2 Corinthians 5:17
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.
Becoming a Christian is a life-changing experience that will transform you. When you talk to people about being a Christian, some think they have to clean up their act and change their ways first, but that is putting the cart before the horse. Once you are saved, through the confessing (or stating) that Christ is your Lord and repenting (or turning away from) your sins, then the Lord will do the clean up work. A drug addict may attend a revival one night and hear about Jesus and accept Him in his life. That addict may then choose to get into rehab to get off the drugs. Jesus will be there to help him through it, but he will still have to go through the withdrawal process. He will still have to make the choice every day not to do drugs. Some addicts relapse . . . that doesn’t mean God stops loving them. He will be your strength when you are weak if you will turn to Him for help.
Most people aren’t drug addicts, but we all have behaviors or habits that we realize don’t line up with a Christian lifestyle. But no one should expect everything to change overnight. I remember hearing a lady speak about when her husband started going to church with her and then he got saved. He was into heavy metal music and had it playing all the time. He told her that he didn’t want to stop listening to it. She told him that was fine -- it was between him and God. As the months passed, she began to notice that he was listening to the music less and less. Finally, he wasn’t playing it at all and she asked him about it. He told her that he just wasn’t into it anymore. She didn’t say anything else to him about it. She had seen the change in him as he began to fill his life more with the things of God. The moral of this story isn’t that heavy metal music is bad and will send you to hell. The moral is that when be begin to fill our lives with the things of God and get His Word into us, it transforms us and changes our priorities. We do become new creatures in Christ.
Changing your life takes time. When you make that first step to accept Christ, it is a moving, emotional experience. But then what? What is a Christian supposed to act like or feel like? Joyce Meyer posted this quote on Facebook recently: “If you will start choosing to do what you know is right, your feelings will catch up with it.” I like that. Every day we have to choose God and make Godly choices. As we do, we’ll develop that relationship with Him and then we’ll be able to walk on faith, not feelings. When you become a Christian, you don’t get a list telling you how to dress, act or talk, and you should run from any church that tries to dictate things like that to you. However, you do get an instruction manual. If you will read your Bible and pray and seek God, the change will come. It will start deep on the inside and transform you. But first you have to get off that fence. Choose for yourself this day whom you will serve.