If actions speak louder than words, what have your actions been telling people lately? Are people crossing the street or hiding in their offices to avoid you, or do they seek you out for counsel and conversation? Do your actions reflect who you really are and what you believe?
James 1:22 -- But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
I don’t think most Christians realize how powerful their actions are. We may have a great testimony. We may be able to quote scripture verbatim. We might be eloquent in explaining the gospel to others. But that’s only part of it. We have to walk the talk. We may have just witnessed to someone and encouraged them and feel good about it, and then we do something un-Christian like that cancels it out. Our actions must line up with our beliefs if we are to be effective in winning others to Christ.
James 1:26 -- Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless.
What kind of message are you sending if you preach Jesus and Him crucified, and then turn around and gossip about someone? Yelling at a store clerk over a mistake may make you feel better, but what does that do to your testimony? If you are out witnessing somewhere and come across that clerk, do you think he or she is going to give you the time of day? Ever see someone with a fish emblem on their car or a “Honk if you love Jesus” bumper sticker giving another driver the finger? Temper tantrums, pouting, selfishness and similar behaviors indicate immaturity. How can we ever get people interested in having the kind of relationship with God that they need if they don’t see it in our lives?
Last week when I was taking down the Christmas decorations, I was watching a marathon showing of a reality TV show. (That’s where they show all the episodes of the series back to back.) The contestants were all living under one roof, but had divided themselves into the Christians and the non-Christians. My observation was that the girls who claimed to be Christians looked down on the other girls and considered themselves to be better. The other girls picked up on that judgmental vibe. It created conflict, of course. The Christian girls missed many opportunities to share their faith and to show kindness to the other girls. Some of their behavior was ugly, and the other girls said they didn’t understand how they could call themselves Christians and act the way that they did. I found it very sad. It made me wonder about my own behavior. Was I living up to and demonstrating what I believe?
I have a friend who worked in an office where the supervisor claimed to be a Christian. Apparently she claimed it very loudly and frequently. She spoke it loud and proud to anyone who was within earshot. My friend found her very annoying and had no interest in hearing about her beliefs. As a supervisor, she was difficult to work with and was more of a hindrance than a help. When my friend was laid off, she was actually happy to be getting away from her. It made me cringe to hear my friend talk about her experiences with this Christian woman. For years, I have been “planting” the seeds of faith, only to have them stomped on. I even feel bad talking about this woman, but I do so to make a point. It’s not just what we say, but how we say it and how we behave. Reaching people with the gospel is challenging enough without shooting ourselves in the foot.
I have a file folder full of poems and sayings that I like. A poem by Edgar Guest is probably my favorite. I found the full version on line. It’s called, “I’d Rather See a Sermon”.
I'd Rather See a Sermon
I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one any day;
I'd rather one would walk with me than merely tell the way.
The eye's a better pupil and more willing than the ear,
Fine counsel is confusing, but example's always clear;
And the best of all the preachers are the men who live their creeds,
For to see good put in action is what everybody needs.
I soon can learn to do it if you'll let me see it done;
I can watch your hands in action, but your tongue too fast may run.
The lectures you deliver may be very wise and true,
But I'd rather get my lessons by observing what you do;
I may misunderstand the high advice you give,
But there's no misunderstanding how you act and how you live.
When I see a deed of kindness, I am eager to be kind.
When a weaker brother stumbles and a strong man stays behind
Just to see if he can help him, then the wish grows strong in me
To become as big and thoughtful as I know that friend to be.
And all travelers can witness that the best of guides today
Is not the one who tells them, but the one who shows the way.
One good man teaches many, men believe what they behold;
One deed of kindness noticed is worth forty that are told.
Who stands with men of honor learns to hold his honor dear,
For right living speaks a language which to everyone is clear.
Though an able speaker charms me with his eloquence, I say,
I'd rather see a sermon than to hear one any day!
--Edgar A. Guest (1881-1959)
The Bible teaches us that Jesus is the Word that became flesh. The Word of God teaches us how to live and how we can be saved. Jesus came to earth and demonstrated – He was the Word in action. He preached and he taught. He healed and He loved. He sacrificed all that He had so that we might live. “What would Jesus do?” is a valid question that we can ask ourselves daily in any situation. Paul talked about us having to die daily in our flesh so that people could see more of Jesus and less of us.
Actions do speak louder than words. I remember the first time I came to our church. I had asked God to be in my life and I had promised Him I would raise my daughter as a Christian. I asked Him to help me find a church so that I could learn what that meant. I had visited one church, and was overwhelmed by the people. After one visit, they wanted to come to my house and I think I got a letter from everyone in the church. It was too much for me to handle. It felt like they were more interested in getting me to be a member than knowing where I was in my Christian walk and what my needs were. Then my neighbor invited me to what is now my church. I don’t remember the sermon that was preached that day. I don’t remember the songs that were sung. What I remember was the love that I felt among the people. I remember feeling welcomed, but not overwhelmed. I remember seeing the joy on the faces of the people as they worshipped and thinking, “That’s what I want.”
As a Christian, do people want what you have? Do they even know you are a Christian? Are you living a spirit-filled life? Are you praising God through the bad times as well as the good? Do you practice self-control over your tongue and your emotions? We are all human, and there are times when we are going to slip up. I know I can get myself all worked up and mad over situations. Usually I can keep it under control, but sometimes I boil over. That’s when I have to ask the Lord for forgiveness and keep trying to do right.
An old Italian proverb says: Between saying and doing many a pair of shoes is worn out. We can say we are Christians, but it doesn’t mean anything until the rubber meets the road. It’s more than showing up for church two days a week. We have to live it every minute of every day. We have to be doing the work of God every day. As the old saying goes: Being in church doesn’t make me a Christian any more than standing in a garage makes me a car. We have to be doers of the word. We have to walk the talk. We have to be the sermon. By being (working, fulfilling, striving to be) who God has called us to be, we will make a difference in the lives of others. They will see Jesus in us and they will say, “That’s what I want.”